There is the usual saying that one of the only things worse than being cheated on is not knowing if it’s happening or not. As a man, you may be arguing or accusing your partner or even yourself during this period and this can be really painful. But thankfully, these kinds of situations do not happen without some sort of warning.
Thus, if your woman does not own up to tell you that she is cheating, here’s how you can tell:
She is no more giving you details about her life
Your girlfriend may be seeing someone else if she stops sharing details about what has transpired, probably during her day at work or a trip. For fear that you might notice some inconsistencies in her narrations, she would rather shut up than give herself out.
You are no more No.1
When she stops making you the first or even second person to talk to about her day, it could be that she is telling someone else all that. As she shares these personal details with this other person, who is readily available to listen and give advice, an emotional connection grows between them.
Be careful when your girlfriend stops talking to you about a colleague she used to mention almost all the time. Something could be happening.
Has she developed less interest in sex all of a sudden without any tangible reason? Is she frequently coming up with excuses, like insisting she is on her periods, just to avoid any sexual activity? Chances are, she is looking somewhere else.
You could also be having sex alright, but the whole activity may suddenly get awkward. There is another clue many guys overlook, and this is when their women suddenly begin asking for changes in lovemaking. Be warned if she is asking you both to try out new bedroom styles or positions. Chances are she is doing those with another guy and only transferring them to you.
She is overly aggressive
Relationship experts often admit that a woman may be heading out of the door in a relationship when she starts being too defensive at the least opportunity. Partners usually would like to ask for answers when they feel that something isn’t right in the relationship. A woman should be able to calmly respond, but if she becomes overly aggressive, then something may be wrong; she could be hiding things from you. On the contrary, a woman may already be cheating when she becomes extra nice towards you.
You are sure to notice some drastic changes in your partner when she starts cheating. This could be in the sorts of clothes she wears, her makeup, and her body stature. For instance, if your woman who is usually a no make-up person, especially when stepping out to less distant places like a nearby shop, suddenly starts getting all dressed up, that’s a red flag.
M.I.A for hours
Does your girlfriend disappear for hours in a week without you hearing from her? She might blame this on work or being asleep, but this is not always the case. Stop believing everything she tells you and ask for explanations.