African men do make good husbands and many attribute this to how they were raised in the home and their desire to succeed. But for most women, finding the African man is very difficult and even if they do they are not able to keep them. That shouldn’t be difficult though, as these men are not complex as you may think. You only need to fulfill the following requirements and you are sure to have them for as long as you would want.
Be a good cook
The cliché: “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” still holds for the majority of men in Africa. If you are interested in keeping a long-lasting relationship with an African man, learn how to cook. You are even sure to grab him quickly if you can cook his favourite meal.
Be strong but soft
Most African men want women who express soft characteristics and would allow them to be in control. This doesn’t mean you have to be weak, as they desire strong women who can keep the household in their absence and care for the children as well. All they require is for you to make them feel they are in control; that they are the head of the family.
Be seductive but not openly
African men don’t joke with their sex life and hence desire women who would make them feel good in bed. But they would at the same time not expect you to display that side of you in the public domain. They want you to be that “good woman” in public but the bad and naughty one at home.
Take care of your physical appearance
Many women, after a long relationship with a man, tend to feel comfortable and start ignoring their outer appearance. African men do not want that; they want you to maintain your beautiful look and your physical stature. Dress well, take care of your hair, skin and above all stay healthy.
Be a family woman
The family is an integral part of the African culture as it is seen to be a building block of the African society. Hence African men cherish women who can be incorporated into their family and feel at ease with them.
African men love attention and hence desire women who would pamper and compliment them when necessary. The truth is, many of these men would still want their women to treat them like their mothers did when they were just kids.